Birthdays are the best, even better when you reach milestones in your life. Here is my view of the best birthdays and why everyone’s time line is very different.
When I was 18, my parents threw me a surprise party at the local pizza parlor. All my friends (no parents) were there and I was officially an adult. But the best part was knowing my parents understood what I wanted (my friends) and a true surprise with the celebration.
Becoming an Adult
When I turned 21 I could have a cocktail and would graduate from college. But my grandmother had been killed by a drunk driving during her evening walk a few years earlier. I didn’t drink or want too. However, graduating with honors offered a great job with KRAFT, and the opportunity to live on my own across country. I was learning about life, the good and the not so good aspects.
But I missed my family and moved back to Arizona after a few years in the South. In a few short months, I met my future husband. At 25 we celebrated my birthday to together and at 26, we were married.
Parent Years
Being a parent is the most challenging time but happiest years! Right before my 29th birthday, I had our first son. Another baby boy arrived after my 31st birthday. Teaching preschool kept my hand in education and enabled a tight circle of friends, all young moms. We learned about illnesses, TV exposure, (*this was before social media) and our “mom” fears being together weekly. Being a parent opens up your world to more compassion, selflessness, and the needs of others. It is a growing experience for you and your family.
School Years
I went back to work in the library field when both boys were in school. I wanted to pursue my dreams and career goals. Earning a Master’s Degree was a great achievement, and my boys were proud! Working hard led to promotions in my field, which provided the example to my children, of what was possible. Your mindset and perseverance will get you to where you need to go, always.
The Future
What does the future hold? Well, my family is expanding, welcoming a new wife and new baby due next year. My sons’ families are happy and healthy as am I. We don’t live in the same cities, but travel has always been my go too. I’m looking forward to the next chapter as exciting and new, just like every other milestone birthday I’ve had these past decades.
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